In Memoriam Passings August-September 2024 (YAM Mar-Apr 2025)
Charles Lawrence ("Larry") Irwin died on
September 11, 2024. Larry attended Yale
University, graduating with a degree in Economics in 1963. He
founded Irwin Alloys and Raw Materials, trading
in
ferro-alloys, scrap, and coal. With the decline of the
steel industry, he
joined Veka Inc. as President. He
retired in 2002 and moved to Brays
Island in Sheldon, SC,
where he enjoyed hunting with his German
Shorthaired
Pointers, shooting sporting clays, trapping, fishing,
and
golfing. Larry also thoroughly enjoyed his
four hunting trips to Africa.
He is survived by
his wife, Daphne (Johnsie) Irwin; his son, Charles
Irwin;
his daughter, Alison Lally; four grandchildren; and three
great-
grandchildren.
Gordon Iverson Kuster, M.D. died
of pancreatic cancer on September 24, 2024 in Pittsfield,
MA. He graduated from Yale
in 1963, and
from Columbia University’s College of Physicians
and
Surgeons in 1967. He completed his residency at
Harlem
Hospital and Yale New Haven
Hospital. Gordon's professional
life was
rooted in his 37 years at Griffin Hospital in Derby, CT as
a
physician practicing psychiatric medicine. For 13 of those
years
he was Chairman of the Psychiatry Department. In
addition, he
supervised psychiatric residents and medical
students at Yale for
over 25 years, and consulted
at York Correctional Facility as a
court-appointed
Special Master for 23 years. While in college,
Gordon
was proud to row on Yale’s Varsity Heavyweight Crew,
and
after his medical training he returned to his love of rowing.
He
joined the New Haven Rowing Club where he competed in the
Masters
Division at national and international venues for 28 years. In
December 1964, Gordon married Sandra Senftleben, and their
Orange, CT home became the central point for hosting
many Yale/Harvard tailgating parties. Gordon was
an avid audiophile and loved all types of music from Bach to
Bruce Springsteen, but he particularly appreciated classical
music. When he and Sandi were not at home, they often
could be found traveling the world to explore museums, landmarks, and
concert halls.
Gordon is survived by his wife
of 60 years, Sandra Kuster; his children, Cheryl K. Clarke and
Steve
Kuster; and five grandchildren.life was rooted in
his 37 years at Griffin Hospital in Derby, CT as
a
physician practicing psychiatric medicine. For 13 of those
years
he was Chairman of the Psychiatry Department. In
addition, he
supervised psychiatric residents and medical
students at Yale for
over 25 years, and consulted
at York Correctional Facility as a
court-appointed
Special Master for 23 years. While in college,
Gordon
was proud to row on Yale’s Varsity Heavyweight Crew,
and
after his medical training he returned to his love of rowing.
He
joined the New Haven Rowing Club where he competed in the
Masters
Division at national and international venues for 28 years. In
December 1964, Gordon married Sandra Senftleben, and their
Orange, CT home became the central point for hosting
many Yale/Harvard tailgating parties. Gordon was
an avid audiophile and loved all types of music from Bach to
Bruce Springsteen, but he particularly appreciated classical
music. When he and Sandi were not at home, they often
could be found traveling the world to explore museums, landmarks, and
concert halls.
Ted
Murray shares: “Gordon and I were roommates
with Bill Sanford and Jack Smart in Pierson
for two years. I also rowed on heavyweight crew with Bill
and Gordon. I remember that in the
varsity
crew, because of his size and strength, Gordon typically rowed in the
#5 or #7 seat, that portion
of the shell known as the
“engine room.” But for all his imposing size, Gordon
was a gentle giant: one
of the most
compassionate and sensitive classmates I knew, a wonderful and
thoughtful person to talk
with, and perfectly suited for
his subsequent career in psychiatry. In recent months when
I visited
Gordon and Sandi, even as he bravely faced his
illness, he was a radiant presence of thoughtful and
uplifting conversation.” Craig Cooper recalls: “Gordon
was my confidante. I trusted him, respected him and
loved him as a brother. Gordon was great fun, optimistic,
kind, and the adult in the room
when necessary. Those
who knew him benefited greatly.” Tom
Iezzi writes: “Gordon and Sandi were
our
neighbors when we lived in Orange, Ct in the 1970’s. They
were great hosts at our football
tailgates and the
after-game parties at their home. Gordon and I were tennis
doubles partners and
singles players. He was
respected for his wicked first serve, which required standing back a
foot or two
behind the base line. When we
played I looked forward to his second serve, more relaxed and one
I
could return.” Jay
Rixse remembers: “Gordon was a kind and giving
person. Gordon and I first met
as members of
the Freshman Heavyweight Crew. Gordon amazed us
Freshman Year by his growth
spurt of 4 inches and
about 25 pounds. Our friendship grew as we all continued
our years together with
the Varsity Crew and in
Pierson. We all kept in touch throughout the
years. Friendships born at Yale
last!”
Robert Anthony
Rosati, M.D. passed away on July 23, 2024. He
graduated from Yale University with a Bachelor of Science
in
Biochemistry and Duke Medical School, where he joined
the faculty in
1971. There he served as the
first director of the Duke Databank for
Cardiovascular
Disease, one of the first efforts in the country to use
computers
to manage and investigate data on patient outcomes. In
1991
he became director of the Rice Diet Program,
convinced by his
experience with the database that diet
was the most effective treatment
for cardiac
disease. Robert is survived by his wife Kitty, his
children
Francesco, Ken, and Robbin, and five
grandchildren.
Doug
Dick remembers Bob Rosati as follows: “Bob was
my suitemate for four years. He was very smart, and
was happy to share his knowledge. I particularly remember
borrowing some of his class notes for a course we were taking in
nonparametric statistics. I
not only passed it,
but did well, because of those notes! Bob had a fun,
droll, sense of humor. After
Yale, we lost
touch with each other for a long time. But fortunately we
reconnected, and more recently
had dinner, along with his
lovely wife Kitty, at their home in Durham. We had planned
to get together
again, but waited too long.” Geoff
Martin writes: “I greatly admired the way that
Bob handled things
I did not. He was an athlete
way beyond me. His sense of humor was way beyond mine, but
I could
keep up. Bob was brainy, for sure, and
I rarely forgot how he carried it into strong success with people
in need.”
John
Harman Sterne passed away on May 19, 2024 at Cape Cod
Hospital. John lived in many places, residing for
the
longest times in the Boston area, the Washington,
DC area, and
Brewster, MA, to which he retired some 20
years ago. He was a
proud Veteran, having
served in the Navy as a supply officer on the
USS
Caloosahatchee after graduating from Yale
University. After
his time in the Navy, John
spent the rest of his professional career
in the aviation
industry. He was a lifelong sailor and enjoyed taking
his
beloved Beetle Cat “Magical” out on Cape Cod Bay off the
beaches
at Brewster, and then in the last few years out to Pleasant
Bay
from Arey’s Pond. John is survived by his wife,
Gail Binney
Sterne; two sons, a stepdaughter, and a
stepson; four grandchildren;
and four
step-grandchildren.
Dick Ahlborn remembers: “John
and I were classmates at Kent and roommates at Yale. To expand
on his lifelong love of aviation: John got his first private pilot's
license at 16 and his instrument
rating a couple of years
after that. While we were at Yale he took acrobatic
lessons at a dirtstrip outfit
north of New Haven in an old
Stearman Biplane – a cloth model with a huge radial piston engine
in the
front, with all the power needed to do loops,
rolls, even hammerhead stalls. After he was allowed
to
solo, I went up with him and loved the thrills he
provided. Our last flight ended with his clipping the
top
few feet out of a poplar tree just before landing, which (riding in
the front seat) I only realized
when I saw twigs and
leaves in the wire struts that connected the wings. That
was the last time he was
welcomed at that location and
marked the end of our aerial outings. John was a great guy
to have as a
friend and
roommate.” Victor Sheronas writes: j
“John and I both went to The Haverford School until
we
went away to boarding school. During grade school, John
was my best friend; whenever I could, I'd
ride my bike
nearly two hilly miles to his house. Like Dick Ahlborn,
I also took a flight with John.
Unlike Dick, there were no acrobatics!”
John A. Tyler passed
away on passed away on September 20, 2024 with his loving family
at his side. John received an Accounting
Degree
from Bentley University in 1961 and a Bachelor’s Degree from
Yale
in Economics in 1963. In 1968 John passed the CPA exam
and
began a successful career as an accountant. He
worked for various
firms and managed the Boston office of
Laventhol, Krekstein, Horwath
& Horwath. John
realized his dream of running his own business by
founding
an accounting firm in Cambridge, MA in 1976. John
was
known for his abundant generosity, as well as his
passion for reading,
genealogy, and history. He
is survived by his wife of 60 years, Judith
(Cirello) Tyler;
his daughters, Lola (Laura) Tyler Eck and Elisabeth
Tyler
de Vries; his son, Robert Tyler; and five grandchildren.
H.
F. ("Frank") Wentholt died suddenly at his home
on September 25, 2024. He departed without fanfare,
sentimentality, or
fuss. Frank attended Yale
University (1963) and Hastings School of
Law (1970). For
many years he worked as a lawyer at his Redwood
City based
law firm (Wilhelm, Thompson, Wentholt, and Gibbs),
with
a specialty in family law. He was proud also to have
served in
the U.S. Marine Corps. At heart Frank
was a sailor, and he spent his
most cherished times
sailing not only on San Francisco Bay but
around the world
in his own boat and charters. He loved to travel
and
reflected back often on his travels throughout the world. Frank
is
survived by his loving
daughters, Christine Quinn and Nicola Wentholt; and four
grandchildren.
Rick
Holloway recalls: “Frank was usually cheerful,
had a wry sense of humor, and was always up for an
adventure. One, in particular, comes to mind. We
had driven up to Putney VT to stay
with one of
his former teachers in order to spend the weekend skiing. At
about 2:00 AM, Frank woke
me up to say that his
host’s wife was about to give birth and since his host’s car
wouldn’t start, we
would have to drive our host’s wife
to the hospital in Brattleboro. It was quite a drive; snow
was
falling heavily, the wife was alternately moaning and
shrieking, her husband was frantic, but Frank,
calm as
ever, seemed very much amused by the situation. I imagine
he would have remained so even if
we had to undertake an
emergency delivery in the car.” Carlyle
Hall adds: “I recall Frank as
quiet,
thoughtful, kind, and strong. He
invariably had his own interesting ‘take’ on current
personal and
public events.” Nelson
Luria writes: “Frank loved music and the sound
of his record player emerged
regularly from his room. He
had a wide range of curiosities and interests. Frank loved
good wine and
a bottle was often open in his room. Frank
was unusually loyal to a relatively small group of friends
and
delighted in talking with them, sometimes arguing to elicit
conversation.”